”Ignore the ones who talk behind your back. They belong behind you”. 😌 ————————————————————
When you put yourself out there and do big things, you’ll always have haters and critics.😳 We’re all judged and criticized right now. The only way to avoid criticism is to do nothing, be nothing, say nothing.🤐💭 It’s easy for people to point out what you’re doing wrong, but are you gonna let them have power over your life? When you’re on your death bed, are you gonna look back and feel a sense of pride that you avoided criticism? 🤔
It took courage for me to post this pic and release my “shower-song” 🚿🎶(on 9 th of August), but I’m proud of myself for having the guts to do it. If anybody’s got a problem with that, screw them. 👋🏻 HOW TO DEAL WITH HATERS/CRITICISM?
▪️Take it as a compliment. Your critics are your greatest fans cos it takes a lot of time and energy to focus on someone. They pay attention to you cos they’d love to be you, live the way you live, be as successful as you are. Criticism is the best proof that you’re bound to be highly successful. You’re no longer unseen. 🤩 You’re in the spotlight where all the magic happens. ✨
▪️”How you see me has nothing to do with me. It has everything to do with you. ”What someone says reflects how they feel and shows their unresolved issues. They say in psychology: ”If you spot it, you got it”.🧐 Ask yourself what is this person going through and why do they need to say bad things to feel better? Happy/successful people don’t have time/reason to judge others.
▪️Don’t give attention to negative energy. 🙅🏼♀️Focus on what serves you, cos whatever you focus on, grows. The second you take negative comments personally and dwell on them, you’re losing.🤼♂️
▪️Where are your critics coming from? Is it your best friend? Anonymous troll? Who are these people? What are their intentions? Critics look for the mistakes. When someone is trying to help you, they are trying to give you solutions to your problems. 🤔
▪️Remember that we’re all a work in progress; we all make mistakes and we learn every day.👩🎓📝
Before you judge another person, make sure you’re perfect yourself.🥇 ...